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The Medicine of True Leadership
Part Three: Staying with Discomfort
The practice is simple. Profoundly simple.
Stay.
Become aware of your reaction.
Notice your breath.
Let the stories surface without believing them.
You’re not your feelings. You’re the one witnessing them.
This is what creates space between you and the story.
Because there are usually two things going on.
What’s happening and the story you’re telling.
The Gift of Your Own Medicine
Leadership isn’t confined to titles. It appears:
At the kitchen table, sharing hard truths with children.
With a partner, negotiating wants and needs for the future.
In business, delivering unwelcome news with composure.
Your Body Speaks Before It Breaks(down)
As a young professional, I pushed through exhaustion, anxiety, and chronic symptoms for years, but it took even more time for my body's symptoms to get loud enough to say 'hell no girl, you're done'.
The Real Medicine of Life
Part 2 in a 3 part series.
When we talk about disease, most people want to talk about symptoms.
The diagnosis.
The label.
But the body isn’t just expressing itself in physical symptoms.
It’s revealing information.
The Real Medicine of Life
Part 1 in a 3 part series.
Our culture taught us that authority (mostly) lives somewhere else and that they know best. But what if over-dependence on outsourcing our symptoms is the very thing making us unwell?
From Overwhelmed to Empowered Human
When Maya walked into my office last week, she had just been furloughed from her federal job. Her shoulders hunched and telling me right away I’m exhausted. She was here because she’d spent the past week self‑soothing by binge‑watching shows, obsessively scrolling,
Your Participation is Required
And, this is where bypassing can show up. Spiritual bypassing, therapeutic bypassing, shortcut thinking, whatever you want to call it, is when we reach for the outside solution to avoid the work inside. You want the medicine to do it for you.
Ugly is a Courtroom: Rethinking Beauty, Truth, and the Body
What Bayo Akomolafe Means by “The Wrong Courtroom”
Reading Bayo Akomolafe’s LinkedIn post about the blobfish, the creature often called the world’s ugliest animal, made me laugh. Not because the fish looks funny, but because as he points out so eloquently that the judgment says more about the lens we use than about the fish itself.
The Wisdom Within Method: Rooted in Ancient Arts and Science
Quantum mechanics agrees: 99.999% of life is non-matter or unseen.
In ancient traditions, physical symptoms aren’t problems to be eliminated; they are pointers or signposts that direct us to a deeper understanding of the energy or consciousness at work beneath the surface. A headache, fatigue, or even family conflict, these are not merely things to get rid of, but messages that reveal hidden imbalances in our internal and external worlds.
Bambini Heart
Leading with a Bambini heart might sound naive…
Zhineng Qigong Case Study: From ER to Full Recovery
Triumphant client. Not being able to walk to walking to my my office. Using Zhineng qigong practices, Hunyuan Qi Therapy.
Mini story of Success & Becoming a Zhineng Qigong teacher /Hunyuan Qi Therapist
There’s possibility outside conventional medicine. A door open with light coming through.
What ZQ Is (And What It Isn't)—And Why It’s Part of Every One of My Workshops
clouds
You Can Bear This
Picture a tree in the rain. To my knowledge, it's not complaining about the storm.
Chinese medicine shows us that dis-ease is interconnected with the spirit, mental, emotional and physical - a conversation we can learn from for a richer, more connected life. A headache? Your body might be signaling, slow down. Anxiety? A warning that something needs to shift—maybe your boundaries or your environment.
Coming to Your Senses
Spring! In the northern hemisphere, it’s an amazing rebalancing the earth goes through.
Spring energy is so potent.
Imagine a seed deep in the ground, in the darkness, in a compressed space and with no help from the sun, in order to reach its fullest potential, it must draw on its own resources, its own energy to break through to the compacted surroundings up to the earth’s surface.
Time’s Not Waiting—Why Are You?
The fact that you even can procrastinate is a kind of privilege. A luxury.
And frankly, an illusion.
We don’t have the time to pretend we don’t know what’s going on.
To keep ignoring the body’s signals.
To keep showing up like our leadership doesn’t affect everything around us.
It does.
Whether it’s your team, your family, your community, your inner world—it all counts.
Your Mother’s Leadership
I learned a big lesson a few years ago that small irritations become greater and greater losses of power.
During the initial Zoom boom years, I used to get angsty with clients teaching or talking over Zoom.
Weeks to Live
I once heard that the average human life spans 4,000 weeks.
The Body You Bring to the Game Determines How Well You Play
Time to Hone your Spidey Sense
…stress isn't a problem.
The problem is not knowing how you're creating it in your body and in the bodies around you.
So many of us are over-capacity because we've been taught to fight it (fight ourselves) instead of use this wise resource.
Even in these troubled times.
Especially in these troubled times.