Nothing You Do Is Neutral

I can recall my early career, walking into rooms, but checked-out. You'd see me smiling, going through the motions, saying the right things, while inside I was trying to get through the day.

That's what autopilot looks like for me. Efficient on the outside, absent on the inside.

I used to think it was fine because I wasn't in drama mode.

But not making a scene doesn't mean you're neutral.

People feel you.

Whether you're engaged or checked out. Whether you're available or bracing. Whether you're with them, or already onto the next thing.

Presence is a transmission. Action or inaction, it's a signal.

The HeartMath Institute has shown the heart generates the strongest rhythmic electromagnetic field in the human body. With sensitive instruments, it can be detected several feet away, and it shifts depending on what you're actually feeling. Someone can register your field before you've said a word.

Your electromagnetic field, your qi field, is information. In Zhineng Qigong, that's the actual definition. Qi is information.

These days, it’s rare for me to push myself on getting through things. I notice the symptoms of slipping into autopilot and treat them as early warnings- not a moral failure or something to push past. A signal that something in me needs attention before I move onto my next thing.

Presence isn't extra. It’s not a ‘nice-to-have’. It's the baseline everything that matters to you gets built on in your life.

Where would your life change if you treated your presence that way, especially in the meetings and relationships that matter most?

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